Each step is crucial and you must go through each step and be confident enough before moving on to the next one. You have to man up and go through the pain and emotions and work to get her back. But you will have to face your fears, your pain, your emotions, your jealousy, your guilt, your anger, and everything else you will feel during this process.What you will learn in this guide – A step by step plan to get her back – A look into your relationship and why you broke up – A look into yourself and why you are not attractive to her anymore – A look into your future and what you want from your dating life – A view on life and relationship that will keep her around forever I know you want to get your ex girlfriend back fast and end the pain instantly. In the end, you just have to remember that you must stay strong.WE can close the door and damn well slam it shut when they try to push it back open. Instruct all that know you both not to come to you with any information about him, unless he has ‘the clap’ or some other such STD that affects your health. I’ll let you keep his number for three months and that is only so that you know it is him if he decides to call and you’ll know not to answer.And that is the barometer of how successful NC is – When they attempt to open the door, there must be no response. Sit on your hands, tape your dialing fingers together, reward yourself for getting to milestones but do not contact him. You need to move on and forget about him, not be hearing out of context information where people make more out of something than actually exists. No quick fumbles, slippery snogs, one last shag for old times sake, or any bodily contact. Otherwise wipe out all information you have on him because no contact means you are breaking up and closing the door on that chapter in your life. Day one, each time you think of him, mark it down on a sheet of paper in your diary or something. Or if you’re really hung up it might be better to do it by week. The trick is that if you are focusing on you and feeling in a better place emotionally, you won’t be thinking about this joke of a man. Baggage Reclaim is a guide to learning to live and love with self-esteem by breaking the patterns that stand in your way.I know you wish there was a magic button you can press that will make your ex girlfriend come back in your arms right away. You have to stop yourself from becoming the needy, desperate, sorry excuse for a man that you were when your girlfriend left you.
She is going to assume that you just want what you can’t have and everything you do is because of your narcissistic personality.
Whatever damage you might’ve done till now can still be repaired if you just stop doing them right now. OK, let’s move to these mistakes You always want to call your ex and text them telling them how much you love them.
It’s not attractive and to be honest, after a while it becomes very irritating for your ex.
But the worst part is, these mistakes are almost like a natural reaction after a breakup.
Every inch of your body will tell you to do these mistakes and to the broken heart, these look like the logical thing to do. Even if you have done these mistakes already, you have to stop instantly.