In addition, attractiveness became increasingly important to women (but not men) as the intimacy of the request grew larger.
The original research by Clark and Hatfield (1989) and work by Voracek, Hofhansl, and Fisher (2005), also point to two additional variables.
This accounts for the discrepancies of why women seem to refuse sex more often.
But, when men are seen as safe and skilled, and they have a polite and warm demeanor, they are also likely to get a yes.
The first, is that all study requests are very polite (see a sample request here).
The second, is that requests are usually performed in safe, public locations.
Nevertheless, it is important to look your best - especially being clean and well-groomed.
Everyone has a better chance of getting what they want if they ask for it.
Make sure you are even more attentive and warm to them. Especially, do your best to look attractive, groomed, and physically healthy.
6) Be pleasurable - Both men and women agree to sexual encounters with individuals they find pleasurable.
You don't need super secrets to have very good results.
Many people don't realize that they are already more than suitable to ask for and receive a date (so they don't ask).