The only sex they’ve received thus far in their life is the sex that dropped into their laps through women they met organically at their work, through family, school, or their social circles.Many beginners have reached the point where they can meet girls and get first dates or day2 meets (through night game, daygame, or online dating), but they don’t yet have the balls and/or the skill to close the deal with any predictability.
I got a lot of makeouts, but I wasn’t getting laid. It was also during this time that I found some women would have an extreme amount of ASD on the second date when I tried to have sex with them, even though they were clearly attracted to me.The Beginner The beginner is obviously the guy who is just starting out.At one extreme, you’ve got guys who are literally virgins and who are terrified of talking to women.In examining my system, I found that perhaps making out with a woman on an online first date wasn’t a good idea, so I tested not kissing a woman at all on a first date, and instead saving that for the second date where I intended to have sex. I only had this problem with some women; other women had sex with me on the second date with no problem at all.Reviewing my spreadsheets at the time, I was shocked to see that something like 95% of these ASD women were age 33 or over. Could something as simple as age make that big of a difference? I stopped messaging all women online who are age 33 or above, and holy shit, my lay ratios .