With a tipsy grin I shot back, “Oh please, we’re all adults here. I stumbled over my words trying to explain myself, “Umm.. I’m sorry if it came off like that.” They told me how it weird and they weren’t going to answer a question like that. They initially gave me the same attitude, but this time the liquid courage gave me a comeback.(Examples go from lighter to heavier) Remember that these subjects often trigger feelings of shame and defensiveness.Sometimes, you will be met with hesitation and surprise when asking a woman a more intimate question.
But you can’t always rely on getting “gimmes” like that. You have to take a chance and lead into these sexual subjects.
So how do you approach the topic of sex tastefully? Stop waiting for permission to move into intimate topics.
Very few women are going to lead it there or say “You can ask me about sex now!
Avoid doing the following things and you should be OK. Keep in mind that the possibility exists that the sexy blonde 16-year-old babe you’ve been chatting to for two weeks could in fact be a 56-year-old man. Many paedophiles use the chat rooms as hunting grounds. But then, the chat room is not really going to solve that. Calls are expensive – if you spend only an hour a day on the phone every day, this could increase your parents' phone bill substantially. One could probably get away with this for a short time, but eventually you are going to forget what you said to whom.
On the net it is dangerous to believe everything people tell you. There are many oddballs out there – do you really want them on your doorstep? Most parents would not jump for joy at this increase in their phonebill. If a specific person harasses you online, swears at you or constantly makes disgusting suggestions, you can have them barred – every chat room usually has an ‘overseer’ who is contactable. Puffball will react with shock when she finds out you are in fact a scholar and not the psychiatrist you pretended to be.